Dom Sub Training

How to become the best Dom or sub you can be RIGHT NOW

Get all the information you need to become a satisfied BDSM expert—from finding a partner to dealing with the challenges of a long-term relationship—and a detailed plan to make it all happen.

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What's included in the training?

Here's what you’ll learn in each of the 7 modules:

Training Introduction

Learn how to define your kink preferences, focus on what makes YOU unique (so you can better connect with others), and discover how to use BDSM terminology correctly.

Nail the Basics

Learn everything you need to know to become a BDSM expert. We'll cover TRUE Dominance and submission, not what other blogs will try to tell you. You'll discover new bondage techniques to TRANSFORM your sex life, and discipline and punishment strategies that actually work.

How to Find and Keep a Partner

There are a lot of scary weirdos out there pretending to be a Dom or a sub. I'll teach you how to find a partner the RIGHT way so you can find your perfect match. Since so many new BDSM relationships fail, I'll share my surefire tricks for making yours LAST.

Go From Part-Time to Full-Time

Playing in the bedroom and on weekends is fun, but what if you could enjoy BDSM whenever you want? I'll share my step-by-step process for making it work 24/7.

Staying in Your Role when You're Busy

Become a better Dom or sub, even when you don't have the time. Learn my secrets for busy kinksters so you can avoid the dreaded vanilla rut.

Deal with Others Successfully

Did you know that many people will shame you for enjoying BDSM? You'll learn how to keep relatives and coworkers from sabotaging your exciting new lifestyle. Plus I'll show you surprising hacks for how to still have fun even if you have children.

Find Help to Go Further

You'll have seen some HUGE successes by the end of the training, but don't worry, I won't leave you on your own! I'll give you the extra tools you'll need to continue to increase your satisfaction on your BDSM journey.

Your Instructor


Hi, I'm Alesandra!

My greatest joy comes from showing people -- people like you -- how to create the life they truly want. As a BDSM instructor and kink strategist, I've taught more than 1,000 students how to start and grow their 24/7 lifestyle.

I lead an ever-growing community where I help beginners and experienced kinksters explore BDSM more fully. As the creator of, I reach more than 100,000 people a month, and have over 20,000 satisfied subscribers. I’m grateful every day for this community I’ve created online.

I also enjoy being a submissive in a successful 24/7 relationship, which has become one of the most powerful decisions I've made in my life. So even if you’re new to BDSM or have no idea where to begin, "Dom Sub Training" will become your step-by-step system for living a satisfying 24/7 lifestyle.

“Before the course I was concerned I was not being a good Dom. I didn't know if I expected too much or not enough. This course was just what I needed. Now I'm more comfortable and confident.”

- Eric, Dom Sub Training member

"Absolutely love this course, just finished and excited about the end results! I have currently been meeting a few new prospective Doms using your tips from the training."

- Jessica, Dom Sub Training member

“We loved the content! The forums are great and helpful.”

- Dayon & Sallie, Dom Sub Training members

“I wanted to become the best submissive that I can possibly be for my Dominant. The training has helped me feel so much more confident in my submission. I was holding back from my Dom because I wasn’t ready to completely submit to him. This course gave me a great deal of confidence in myself and now I feel like he sees and feels the change every day; he has even complimented me on it!”

- Tina, Dom Sub Training member

Frequently Asked Questions

What if I'm brand new to BDSM?
Fantastic! "Dom Sub Training" will help you get a running start with exploring BDSM. You could spend years trying to figure out how to live the lifestyle, OR you could start finding satisfaction NOW.
What if I'm already living a Dom/sub lifestyle 24/7?
Would you like to increase your satisfaction you experience every day? Almost everyone I meet - no matter how long they've been playing - has huge challenges they're struggling with. In "Dom Sub Training," I share the BEST strategies that will help you quickly take things to the next level, no matter how many years of experience you do or don’t have.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After enrolling, you have unlimited access to this course, and its private community forum, for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
I would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, simply contact me within the first 30 days and I will give you a full refund.

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